Question: Do we have more than one soul mate?
Yes. We each have many. Soulmates are people (souls) with whom we have had loving relationships in past lifetimes on the earth or even in other realities in which our souls have incarnated together. When we cross paths again now…even though race, religion, nationality, or gender all may be different…there is an immediate familiarity and ease. You might even feel like you’ve known them “forever” after spending only a brief time together. There is a heart/soul resonance, which carries across lifetimes.
Positive past life connections include souls who at other times have been friends, family members, partners, teachers and colleagues. Considering we have loved many people over the course of many experiences during our soul’s journey, there is the potential for numerous soulmate encounters every lifetime. Meeting someone now whom you knew and loved before sparks instant comfort and immediate connection. It is impossible to ignore.
However, it does not necessarily mean drop your life and run o with this person. It will be up to the two of you to get to know each other in the here and now, which is how to discover what kind of relationship…if any…is most appropriate now. Find out if there is a real-time match between you in terms of current values, goals, attitudes, integrity, and actions. It is entirely possible to have a loving connection and to also know this is not the timing and/or the person in your highest good as a life partner this time.
The bottom line of a soul-connected relationship is mutual unconditional love and acceptance of each other as is …the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly. Unconditional love means there is no energy expended on trying to fix or reform the other person. Unconditional love is the context in which we can safely work on our personal growth because the love is never in question.
Soulmates mutually catalyze deep stuff to come to the surface for healing and growing. Whether you choose to be friends, colleagues, lovers, or to never cross paths again, it is important to take the time to become aware this meeting is not random. There is something being evoked in you by this person’s presence, which is a potent opportunity to evolve.
Keep in mind that whether or not part of your experience this life is to be with a soul you have known and loved before, all unconditionally loving relationships are soulful. Right now we have the chance to experience soul love and to nurture those deep connections in this life, which may be soulmate “ reunions” in future lives.